Dear Rita: I have a really awful co-worker -- Gossip Greta -- who is making me miserable. She goes out of her way to be rude to me and badmouths me behind my back. Once I made a minor mistake and she started yelling at me, calling me "stupid" and "incompetent" right in the middle of the office! I've complained about her, but my boss says, "Oh, that's just how she is." She even spread a rumor that I'm cheating on my girlfriend. I never did anything to her and I don't know why she's being so awful to me. Can I sue my employer for creating a hostile work environment? Or should I just quit? Signed, Fed Up
Dear Fed Up: Greta is more than a gossip. She sounds like a bully.
Bullying involves repeated instances of unreasonable mistreatment. I think of bullying as an aggravated case of rudeness. Such behavior might include the bully making the target the repeated butt of "jokes."At its worst, bullying behavior may be physical and interfere directly with the target's work.
Although bullying behavior may be used as evidence of discrimination, it is not . . .