Two things. We aren’t getting as many family volunteers as we used to. We still have so many volunteers–but fewer of them came from having a family member who died in our hospice. We’ve heard that from other hospices, too, but I don’t know what it means. The other thing is that all the new regulations make it harder for volunteers. They used to be able to drive people, sometimes feed patients. Now they can’t do those things.
Shaguna Wilkes
Volunteer Resources Coordinator
Pathways Hospice Foundation
Sunnyvale, California
As corny as it sounds, these comments touch my heart. We receive gifts from others, and we may give gifts to others still. These life experiences inform our lives, and when they have been filled with generosity, like the generous spirits of hospices and hospice volunteer, they inform our lives with generosity. Thanks for writing, everyone. Jan
Well said Giantthaw and I agree. I cared for my Grandfather for four plus years while he battled Alzheimer’s Disease. His long and drawn out death was a very painful experience and something I hope never to endure again. Hospice was a wonderful support to us. In fact, we named the people from Hospice as his extended family in his obituary. However, being appreciative of Hospice and being able to do what the incredible volunteers do are separate things. My support for Hospice comes in other ways. Keep up the good work.
When my firstborn arrived with a cleft lip and palate, we joined the craniofacial support group. She had two operations before she was 1 year. The emotional support and information was crucial to our family. The group members helped each other through, but at a certain point, it was necessary for my family to move on.
When my mother was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig’s, I joined an ALS support group. Again, we all helped each other. After she passed, I came away having made a life-long friend from that group. But again, for me, it was necessary to move on.
For some, these life-changing situations become a life’s work and passion. For others, they are life’s lessons to build upon. “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven…” Ecclesiastes 3:1
I think it’s fabulous that Jan has created this forum for staff and volunteers, including Board members, to learn from one another. Thanks, Jan!